wallower

One who lingers

A wallower is someone who wallows—indulging heavily in an emotion or state, usually unpleasant ones like self-pity, misery, or grief.

The word carries judgment: a wallower doesn't just feel bad but seems to luxuriate in feeling bad, resisting comfort or recovery.

Don't be such a wallower—get up and do something.

self-pity

misery

Intense prolonged distress

hopelessness · gloom · sorrow · moping · brooding · sulking · dejection · woefulness · moroseness · pessimism

mud

pig

Domesticated swine for meat

  • hippoSemi-aquatic African mammal
  • buffaloLarge North American bovine
  • swineDomestic porcine animals

hog · sty · mire · slop · filth · mudhole · boar · sow · bath · cooling

lethargy

inertia

Resistance to altered motion

languor · apathy · slothfulness · idleness · indolence · stagnation · passivity · inactivity · ennui · malaise

indulgence

hedonism

Pursuit of gratification

binge · self-gratification · overindulgence · reveling · basking · luxuriating · immersion · abandonment · surrender · sybarite

Categories
Opposites
emotional response to adversity

wallowerovercomer

One who prevails

stoic · trooper · coper · survivor · optimist

agency and action orientation

wallowerproblem-solver

One who resolves difficulties

go-getter · doer · fixer · striver · self-starter

Phrases
Family

wallow, wallowing, wallows, wallowed, wallowers

Familiarity
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G