wallow in the mire

Embrace the mud

To wallow in the mire is to remain stuck in a bad situation, often with a suggestion of passive acceptance or even perverse enjoyment.

The image is of an animal rolling in mud—comfortable in filth rather than seeking escape.

He'd rather wallow in the mire of self-pity than actually fix his problems.

The phrase carries moral judgment: wallowing implies you could climb out but choose not to.

Related

slog · pigsty · bog · bog down · immersion · brooding · ooze · stagnation · ruminating · despair · down in the dumps · writhe · struggle · sink or swim · deep end · hopelessness · entrapment · self-pity

Opposites
moral/spiritual elevation

wallow in the mirerise above

Overcome by staying superior

soar · transcend · ascend · aspire · reach for the stars

response to difficulty

wallow in the mireovercome

Prevail against difficulty

persevere · soldier on · push through · bounce back · rise to the occasion

cleanliness/purity

wallow in the mirepurify

Remove unwanted substances

come clean

Family

wallow, wallows, wallowed, wallowing, mire, mires, mired, miring, miry

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G