scorekeeping

Recording the score

Scorekeeping is tracking points or progress in a game, competition, or ongoing situation.

The literal sense covers sports and games: Who's doing the scorekeeping tonight?

Figuratively, it describes monitoring who owes what in relationships or disputes: Marriage shouldn't be about scorekeeping.

The term often carries a negative connotation when applied to personal relationships, suggesting petty tallying of grievances or favors.

tallying

tally

Recorded count

counting · tick marks · running total · tabulation · enumeration · points · strokes · reckoning · adding up · cumulative

sports

referee

Sports rule enforcer

assists · innings · quarters · halftime · overtime · penalty · foul · touchdown · rebound · timer

recording

logbook

Official record of events

documentation · stats · statistics · archive · database · registry · chronicle · play-by-play · game log · match report

competition

leaderboard

Ranked list of competitors

tournament · champion · finalist · seed · playoff · elimination · tiebreaker · matchup · rivalry · victory

evaluation

judging

Forming an opinion

rubric · criteria · deductions · marks · assessment · penalty points · bonus points

Categories
Opposites
active participation vs. recording/observing

scorekeepingplaying

Participating in recreation

competing · participating · performing · active participation · spectating

tracking vs. ignoring outcomes

scorekeepinglosing count

Forgetting the total

casual play · free play

accountability vs. forgiveness (metaphorical sense)

scorekeepingforgiveness

Releasing resentment toward offenders

letting go · grace · moving on · unconditional love · absolution

Family

keep, score, keeping, keepsake, scoring, underscore, scoreboard, outscore, scoreless

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