deadname

Abandoned birth name

A deadname is the birth name of a person who has since changed their name, especially a transgender person's pre-transition name.

The term implies the old name is no longer valid—socially dead.

To deadname someone is to call them by that former name, whether intentionally or not: Her coworker kept deadnaming her in meetings.

Deliberate deadnaming is widely considered disrespectful or hostile.

harm

misgendering

Incorrectly identifying someone's gender

outing · dehumanization · stigma · alienation · trauma · dishonor · insensitivity · denial · harassment · violation

discrimination

transphobia

Prejudice against transgender people

hate · violence · bullying · marginalization · oppression · hostility · exclusion · injustice · targeting · persecution

identity

reidentification

Recognizing something previously known

affirmation · self-definition · rebirth · empowerment · self-acceptance

transition

coming-out

Public declaration of identity

passport · pronouns · paperwork · bureaucracy · petition · announcement · disclosure · correction

rejection

disavowal

Rejection of connection

discarding · abandonment · burial · closure · severance · distancing · detachment · release · farewell

Categories
Opposites
name authenticity/identity alignment

deadnamechosen name

Self-selected personal identifier

true name · real name · legal name · preferred name · given name

social recognition/respect

deadnameaffirm

Declare to be true

honor · respect · acknowledge · validate · recognize

acceptance vs rejection of identity

deadnameaffirming

Declaring something true

validating · respecting · honoring · acknowledging

Family

deadnaming, deadnames, deadnamed

Familiarity
Top 500,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Negative · Rated PG