courtly love

Knight's noble passion

Courtly love is a medieval European conception of romantic love, typically between a knight and a noblewoman of higher rank, characterized by idealization, secrecy, and devoted service.

The lover suffers nobly, performs heroic deeds to prove his worth, and often worships from afar without expectation of fulfillment.

The tradition shaped Western ideas about romance: Their relationship had all the longing and restraint of courtly love.

poetic

sonnet

Fourteen-line metered poem

stanza · rhyme · verse · couplet · refrain · aubade · canso · envoi · apostrophe · blazon

chivalric

knight

Honored mounted soldier

  • ladyCourteous term for woman
  • gallantryCourage, especially in combat
  • honorHigh regard, moral dignity

noble · fealty · vassal · liege · squire · quest · valor · allegiance · devotion · service

medieval

troubadour

Medieval Provençal lyric poet

heraldry · aristocracy · joust · banquet · tapestry · minstrel · patronage · nobility · chatelaine · bower

longing

pining

Aching with prolonged desire

unfulfilled · sighs · adoration · forbidden · torment · melancholy · heartache · suffering · desire · passion

ritual

wooing

Romantic pursuit of another

  • suitorOne who seeks affection
  • tokenRepresentative placeholder
  • favorKind act or preference

glove · sleeve · ribbon · serenade · declaration · petition · trial · test · proof · secrecy

Categories
Opposites
social register and refinement

courtly loveribaldry

Vulgar or indecent humor

idealization vs. physicality

courtly lovefornication

Intercourse between unmarried persons

lechery · concupiscence · licentiousness · debauchery

formality and convention

courtly lovefree love

Unstructured romantic and sexual bonds

arranged marriage · domestic partnership · loveless marriage

Family

love, court, lovely, loved, lover, beloved, courtesy, courteous, unloved

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Rated G