benching

Not letting play

Benching is keeping someone on the sidelines—available but not actively in play.

In dating, it means maintaining casual contact with a romantic interest without committing: He's been benching me for months—texts occasionally but never makes real plans.

In sports and fitness, benching refers to sitting a player out or performing the bench press exercise: I've been benching 200 pounds lately.

sports

sideline

Secondary business pursuit

rotation · second-string · coach · roster · resting · lineup · squad · backup · inactive · dugout

dating

ghosting

Abruptly ceasing all communication

mixed signals · rejection · dating apps · swiping · texting · noncommittal · uncertainty · ambiguity · exclusivity · casual dating

weightlifting

barbell

Weighted exercise apparatus

power rack · pectorals · reps · sets · lockout · arch · chest day · pressing · lifting · triceps

workplace

sidelining

Removing from participation

passed over · marginalizing · excluded · overlooked · career limbo · dead-end

parks

rest stop

Roadside traveler facility

trail · overlook · sitting · wrought iron · slats · armrest · public seating · plaza · courtyard · promenade

Categories
Opposites
playing status in sports

benchingstarting

Initiating an action

playing · fielding · putting in · activating · featuring

dating/relationship behavior

benchingcommitting

Carrying out an act

pursuing · prioritizing · going all in · engaging · cuffing

exercise/weightlifting

benchingrowing

Pulling oars to move

squatting · deadlifting · running

Family

bench, benches, workbench, benched, bencher, workbenches, benchwarmer, benchwarmers, benchtops

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Used worldwide · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG