fence-mending

Patching things up

Fence-mending is the work of repairing damaged relationships, especially in politics.

A politician returns to their district for fence-mending with constituents, or engages in fence-mending after a public dispute with allies.

The image comes from the literal task of maintaining fences between neighboring properties—neglected boundaries cause problems.

After the leaked emails, there was serious fence-mending to do.

reconciliation

rapprochement

Reestablishment of harmonious relations

atonement · olive-branch · détente · restoration · reunion · pardon · resolution · rebuilding · renewal · truce

diplomacy

negotiation

Discussion seeking mutual accord

  • dialogueSpoken exchange between parties
  • summitPeak or diplomatic gathering
  • treatyBinding pact between nations

statecraft · envoy · ambassador · back-channel · protocol · communiqué · détente · geopolitics · bilateral · consulate

negotiation

compromise

Agreement through mutual sacrifice

mediation · bargaining · give-and-take · middle-ground · trade-off · deal · adjustment · balancing · arbitration · terms

relationship

trust

Confidence in another

listening · patience · sincerity · understanding · rebuilding · commitment · respect · closeness · reconnecting · acknowledgment

repair

posts

Published online content

  • wireThin metallic conductor
  • picketsProtesters outside a workplace
  • railsGuiding metal bars

lumber · nails · hammer · staples · chain-link · tools · fixing · maintenance · stretching · patching

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Opposites
relational repair vs. damage

fence-mendingestrangement

Emotional separation between people

alienation · burning bridges · severing ties · cutting ties · rupturing

conflict resolution vs. escalation

fence-mendingprovocation

Act that triggers response

antagonism · aggression · escalation · rabble-rousing · saber-rattling

forgiveness vs. resentment

fence-mendingscore-settling

Avenging past grievances

vindictiveness · bitterness · unforgiveness · vengefulness · retaliation

Family

fence, defend, defense, offense, amends, mending, fenced, fencing, fences

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