coming-of-age

Reaching young adulthood

Coming-of-age describes the transition from childhood to adulthood, or works depicting that transition.

A coming-of-age novel or film follows a young protagonist through formative experiences—first love, loss of innocence, identity struggles.

The phrase also works as a noun: Her summer abroad was a coming-of-age.

Related to rite of passage but emphasizing gradual development rather than a single ceremony.

narrative

bildungsroman

Fiction of psychological maturation

trial · disillusionment · heartbreak · betrayal · sacrifice · departure · return · wisdom · lesson · memoir

growth

puberty

Sexual development stage

awakening · blossoming · transformation · metamorphosis · self-discovery · enlightenment · realization · epiphany · progression · evolution

milestone

graduation

Completing academic requirements formally

license · eighteen · adulthood · majority · debutante · commencement · walkabout · conscription · emancipation · matriculation

youth

teenager

Person aged thirteen-nineteen

curiosity · naivety · crush · acne · friendship · clique · angst · homework · prom · bullying

identity

individuation

Distinguishing one from many

selfhood · authenticity · introspection · differentiation · agency · self-actualization · independence · empowerment · persona · ego

ritual

initiation

Formal admission ceremony

  • ceremonyFormal event marking occasions
  • riteCeremonial act or practice
  • traditionCustom passed through generations

sacrament · baptism · communion · ordination · scarification · circumcision · tattooing · piercing · fasting · seclusion

Categories
Opposites
life stage transition direction

coming-of-agesecond childhood

Senility's mental decline

Peter Pan syndrome · decline · senescence · aging · growing old

maturation vs. regression

coming-of-ageregression

Return to former state

infantilization · arrested development · immaturity · childishness · stunted growth

innocence vs. experience

coming-of-agesheltering

Protecting from elements

naivety · unworldliness · cloistering · willful ignorance · escapism

Family

come, coming, comes

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G