pat-on-the-back

Encouraging physical acknowledgment

A pat-on-the-back is a gesture of praise, encouragement, or congratulation—literal or figurative.

The physical act of patting someone's back conveys approval without words.

More often the phrase is metaphorical: She deserved a pat on the back for closing the deal.

To give yourself a pat on the back is to feel self-satisfied, sometimes smugly so.

praise

encouragement

Support spurring continued effort

validation · affirmation · kudos · attaboy · well-done · approval · commendation · appreciation · reassurance · boost

reward

bonus

Reward beyond expectation

trophy · certificate · promotion · raise · merit · achievement · honor · award · prize · distinction

physical

shoulder

Upper arm joint

  • touchPerceiving through physical contact
  • tapValve controlling liquid flow
  • gestureCommunicative body movement

congratulatory · handshake · hug · embrace · squeeze · clap · slap · gentle · friendly · warm

self-congratulation

smug

Excessively self-satisfied

gloating · vanity · ego · hubris · self-satisfied · complacent · bragging · conceited · immodest · self-serving

Opposites
feedback valence

pat-on-the-backreprimand

Formal expression of disapproval

criticism · rebuke · scolding · dressing-down · tongue-lashing

physical gesture

pat-on-the-backslap in the face

Humiliating rebuke or rejection

punch · shove · kick in the pants · slap · stab in the back

emotional effect

pat-on-the-backslap in the face

Humiliating rebuke or rejection

kick in the teeth · put-down · insult · humiliation · takedown

Family

back, patted, patting, patter, backs, backed, backing, backer

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G