spinster

Permanently single woman

A spinster is an unmarried woman, especially one past the conventional age for marriage.

The word originally meant a woman who spins thread—an occupation for unmarried women—but now carries connotations of being old, unwanted, or left behind.

It's considered dated and often offensive: She bristled at being called a spinster.

The male equivalent, bachelor, lacks the negative associations.

unmarried

single

One in number

unattached · celibate · eligible · partnerless · solo · childless · uncommitted · never-married · husbandless · spouseless

textile

distaff

Fiber-holding spinning tool

  • yarnTwisted strand for crafts
  • flaxFiber and oil crop
  • linenFlax-derived textile

fiber · thread · wool · wheel · whorl · handspinning

stereotype

cat lady

Woman keeping many felines

reclusive · dowdy · wallflower · homely · prudish · frumpy · unchosen · bluestocking · unwanted

independence

self-sufficient

Able to provide independently

liberated · free-spirited · unconstrained · unencumbered · self-supporting · freewheeling · unfettered · unconventional · nonconformist · trailblazing

antiquated

old-fashioned

Belonging to earlier times

Victorian · passe · anachronistic · obsolete · bygone · quaint · fusty · Edwardian · 19th-century · Dickensian

Categories
Opposites
marital status

spinsterwife

Female marriage partner

married woman · bride · matron · newlywed · bride-to-be

relationship trajectory

spinsterbride

Woman getting married

newlywed · fiancée · blushing bride · debutante · belle of the ball

gendered unmarried terms

spinsterbachelor

Unwed male adult

confirmed bachelor · incel

Family

spinsterhood, spinsters, spinsterish

Familiarity
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G