boys will be boys

Roughhousing gets shrugged

Boys will be boys is a phrase used to dismiss or excuse rowdy, mischievous, or aggressive behavior by males as natural and inevitable rather than something requiring correction.

It is often applied to roughhousing, pranks, or minor rule-breaking.

Critics of the phrase argue it perpetuates harmful stereotypes and excuses genuinely problematic behavior by treating it as biologically determined.

When he broke the neighbor's window with a baseball, his father just shrugged and said boys will be boys.

Opposites
accountability

boys will be boysno excuses

Refusing to justify failure

zero tolerance · take responsibility · personal responsibility · raise the bar · face the music

gender essentialism

boys will be boystoxic masculinity

Harmful rigid male norms

explanatory validity

boys will be boysdeflection

Change in trajectory

Family

boys, boyish, boyhood, will, wills, willed, willing, willingly, unwilling

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG