wallflower

Timid dance attendee

A wallflower is a person who remains on the sidelines at a social gathering, especially someone too shy to dance or mingle: She spent prom as a wallflower, watching from the bleachers.

The term comes from the flowering plant that grows on walls and rocky places.

By extension, wallflower describes anything overlooked or undervalued: The stock was a wallflower until last quarter.

shy-person

shy

Reserved and retiring

withdrawn · quiet · introvert · loner · recluse · unassuming · self-conscious · demure · modest · self-effacing

overlooked

ignored

Purposely not noticed

forgotten · sidelined · underestimated · undervalued · overshadowed · eclipsed · obscure · hidden · unrecognized · unseen

plant

fragrant

Emitting pleasant smell

yellow · orange · purple · crucifer · brassicaceae · stock · rockery · border

dance

unchosen

Not picked or selected

stag · waiting · watching · partner · social · ballroom · prom · cotillion · mixer · debutante

Categories
Opposites
social presence and visibility

wallflowerlife of the party

Most entertaining guest

center of attention · social butterfly · showboat · scene-stealer · attention hog

social temperament

wallflowerextrovert

One who seeks company

extravert · social butterfly · socialite · people person · social animal

social confidence

wallflowergo-getter

Ambitious, driven person

live wire · dynamo · firecracker · force of nature · mover and shaker

Phrases
Family

wallflowers

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G