secret handshake

Club entrance ritual

A secret handshake is a distinctive greeting known only to members of a particular group—a fraternity, club, or organization.

The handshake serves as a recognition signal between insiders.

Figuratively, it refers to any unspoken understanding or insider knowledge that marks group membership: Getting hired there requires knowing the secret handshake.

clandestine

covert

Intentionally concealed

furtive · discreet · concealed · hidden · cryptic · coded · signal · password · cipher · countersign

exclusive

insider

One with confidential access

elite · circle · cabal · fraternity · sorority · guild · society · clique · access · initiation

bond

trust

Confidence in another

brotherhood · sisterhood · fellowship · kinship · rapport · alliance · pact · unity · connection · affinity

ritual

ceremony

Formal event marking occasions

  • traditionCustom passed through generations
  • riteCeremonial act or practice
  • customHabitual group practice

protocol · observance · practice · convention · initiation · induction · greeting · gesture · handclasp · formality

Categories
Opposites
accessibility/exclusivity

secret handshakewave hello

open-door policy · open arms · open invitation · handshake · high five

visibility/concealment

secret handshakepublic announcement

Official communication to all

broadcast message · name tag · billboard

in-group vs. out-group signaling

secret handshakeopen invitation

welcome mat · public forum · town square

Family

secret, secrecy, secretive, handshake, secrete, secreted, secretiveness, secretively, secreting

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G