lording

Ruling over others

Lording is acting superior or domineering over others, wielding authority in an overbearing way: He's always lording his seniority over the newer employees.

The phrase lord it over is the standard construction: She lorded it over everyone once she got promoted.

The word captures not just exercising power but flaunting it.

domineering

bullying

Aggressive repeated intimidation

high-handed · dictatorial · bossy · condescending · patronizing · browbeating · hectoring · oppressive · despotic · autocratic

pompous

haughty

Disdainfully proud

snobbish · uppity · high-and-mighty · smug · grandiose · vainglorious · preening · strutting · posturing · airs

authority

rule

Governing principle or standard

jurisdiction · command · power · supremacy · sway · reign · mastery · control · oversight · mandate

nobility

duke

Highest-ranking nobleman

  • baronLow-ranking peer
  • viscountMid-ranking British noble
  • earlBritish hereditary noble rank

marquess · peerage · aristocrat · gentry · patrician · blueblood · ladyship · coronet · noblesse · seigneur

feudal

vassal

Land-holding sworn subordinate

  • fiefGranted feudal estate
  • liegeFeudal superior or subject
  • manorLanded aristocratic residence

serfdom · demesne · homage · suzerainty · fiefdom · peasant · tithe · bailiff · seneschal · reeve

Opposites
dominance/submission

lordingdeferring

Postponing or yielding respectfully

submitting · kowtowing · groveling · serving · obeying

arrogance/humility

lordingself-effacing

Downplaying one's own importance

deferring · meek · humble · modest · unassuming

Phrases
Family

lord, landlord, lordly, warlord, lordship, overlord, lordliness, lordless

Familiarity
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G