kowtowing

Bowing down submissively

Kowtowing is showing excessive deference or submission to someone.

The word comes from a Chinese ceremonial bow involving kneeling and touching the forehead to the ground.

In English, it's almost always figurative and negative—suggesting servile flattery or spineless capitulation: He accused the senator of kowtowing to corporate interests.

She refused to kowtow to unreasonable demands.

submission

prostration

Utter physical or mental depletion

fawning · sycophancy · obsequiousness · toadying · bootlicking · genuflection · bowing · cringing · abasement · ingratiation

ritual

prostration

Utter physical or mental depletion

tradition · Confucianism · emperor · mandarin · feudal · genuflection · incense · altar · veneration · formality

respect

reverence

Profound admiring respect

honor · deference · esteem · admiration · regard · salute · acknowledgment · recognition · courtesy · politeness

political

appeasement

Satisfying demands to prevent conflict

compliance · acquiescence · submission · subjugation · vassalage · fealty · allegiance · tribute · diplomacy · negotiation

Categories
Opposites
deference/submission

kowtowingdefying

Actively refusing obedience

standing up · resisting · asserting oneself · rebelling · confronting

dignity/self-respect

kowtowingproud

Satisfied by accomplishment

self-respecting · dignified · unbowed · unbent · self-assured

response to power

kowtowingdefiance

Open resistance to authority

rebellion · insubordination · dissent · standing one's ground · confronting

Phrases
Family

kowtow, kowtowed, kowtows, kotow

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G