counting coup

Touching enemy, fleeing

Counting coup is a practice among some Plains Indian tribes of gaining honor by touching an enemy in battle without killing them—demonstrating bravery through proximity to danger rather than through bloodshed.

The phrase now applies figuratively to any symbolic victory or show of dominance that humiliates an opponent without destroying them: The senator was just counting coup, scoring points without passing legislation.

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bravery · brave deed · Plains Indians · nonviolence · ritual · symbolic gestures · eagle feather · respect · honor codes · courage · warrior societies · honor · spiritual beliefs · storytelling · oral history · skill · warrior culture · sacred rituals

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lethality of combat

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Causing death deliberately

slaying · massacre · mortal combat · slaughter · assassination

honor through risk vs. safety

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Shooting from hiding

drone strike · aerial bombardment · artillery barrage · artillery bombardment · poison

symbolic vs. material warfare

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Conflict engaging entire nations

scorched earth · genocide · extermination · attrition warfare · war of conquest

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