Dear John letter

Romantic dismissal message

A Dear John letter is a letter from a woman to her boyfriend or husband—typically a soldier deployed overseas—ending the relationship.

The name comes from the generic salutation: Dear John, I've met someone else...

The term has broadened to mean any written notice of romantic breakup, regardless of the recipient's gender.

A Dear Jane letter reverses the roles.

military

deployment

Organized distribution of resources

war bride · serviceman · separation · distance · waiting · homefront · stationed · absence · longing · infidelity

breakup

farewell

Leave-taking expression

closure · split · estrangement · dissolution · dumped · rejection · finality · over · moving on · letting go

heartbreak

anguish

Intense mental suffering

devastation · loneliness · emptiness · pain · betrayal · abandoned · crushed · tears · crying · despair

correspondence

written

Composed in text

postmarked · ink · paper · note · delivered · mailbox · words · pages · read · unfolded

Categories
Opposites
relationship trajectory

Dear John lettermarriage proposal

Offer of matrimony

love letter · wedding invitation · engagement announcement · declaration of love · proposal

emotional valence for recipient

Dear John lettercontent

What something contains

happy · love letter · good news · acceptance letter · happy news

Family

dear, dearly, dearness, dearer, dearest, endear, endearing, endearment, John

Familiarity
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Profile
Mostly American · Timeless · Concrete · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG