endear

Make oneself lovable

To endear is to make someone lovable or beloved, usually through charm, kindness, or appealing qualities: Her generosity endeared her to the whole neighborhood.

Often reflexive: He endeared himself to voters with his plain-spoken style.

The word implies winning affection rather than demanding it—you become dear to someone through your actions or nature.

charm

captivate

Hold attention irresistibly

magnetism · charisma · appeal · winsomeness · likability · winning · disarming · engaging · delightful · charming

affection

fondness

Warm liking or affection

intimacy · closeness · devotion · adoration · cherish · treasure · appreciate · love · heartfelt · sincerity

bonding

attachment

Connection or fondness

devotion · rapport · closeness · kinship · affinity · solidarity · trust · commitment · togetherness · companionship

ingratiate

flatter

Praise to please

  • coaxPersuade by gentle urging
  • wooSeek romantic favor
  • courtTrial venue or sports surface

fawn · schmooze · pander · appease · ingratiating · obsequious · sycophantic · deferential · compliant · grovel

Opposites
interpersonal affection

endearalienate

Cause emotional distance

estrange · repulse · antagonize · repel · disgust

Phrases
Family

endearing, endearment, endeared, endears, unendearing

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G