lose control

Fly off handle

To lose control is to no longer be able to manage or direct something—a vehicle, a situation, one's emotions: She lost control of the car on the ice, The meeting lost control when everyone started shouting.

The phrase often describes emotional outbursts: He lost control and started crying.

One can also lose control of bodily functions, a euphemism for involuntary urination or defecation.

panic

hysteria

Uncontrollable emotional excess

  • terrorExtreme, overwhelming fear
  • alarmUrgent warning signal
  • dreadIntense anticipatory fear

fright · overwhelm · meltdown · fight-or-flight · hyperventilation · trembling · sweating · heart-pounding · freeze · shutdown

chaos

pandemonium

State of utter confusion

  • mayhemViolent disorder and destruction
  • bedlamState of wild disorder
  • havocWidespread destruction and chaos

turmoil · anarchy · upheaval · frenzy · riot · meltdown · disarray · unraveling · breakdown · collapse

emotional

outburst

Sudden emotional release

flying off the handle · blowing up · exploding · rage · sobbing · hysterics · tantrum · conniption · fit · tirade

recklessness

abandon

Leave behind permanently

carelessness · foolhardiness · temerity · throwing caution · wildness · daredevil · irresponsibility · brashness · impetuousness · risk-taking

physical

skidding

Uncontrolled sliding motion

careening · veering · hydroplaning · sliding · tumbling · falling · stumbling · wobbling · flailing · convulsing

surrender

letting go

Releasing one's grasp

submission · capitulation · resignation · acceptance · relinquishing · unbridling · freeing · unleashing · opening up · flowing

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Opposites
emotional/behavioral composure

lose controlkeep one's cool

Maintain emotional control

stay calm · keep it together · hold it together · keep one's head · contain oneself

physical/mechanical control

lose controlhold steady

Remain constant, unmoved

stabilize · right the ship · stay the course

power/authority

lose controlseize control

Forcibly take command

take control · gain control · take command · assume control · call the shots

Family

lose, lost, control, losing, controller, controlled, loses, controlling, uncontrollable

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG