cap-in-hand

Meekly asking favors

Cap-in-hand describes a humble or submissive manner, as if literally holding one's cap while begging or pleading: He went cap-in-hand to his father for money.

The image is of a supplicant removing his hat as a sign of deference.

The phrase often implies reluctant humiliation—asking for something you'd rather not need.

supplication

begging

Earnest desperate requesting

imploring · entreating · petitioning · groveling · deferential · submissive · meek · lowly · obsequious · kowtowing

financial

borrowing

Temporary taking of another's

bailout · handout · charity · alms · donation · funding · subsidy · grant · assistance · relief

power

subordinate

One lower in rank

disadvantaged · unequal · hierarchy · employer · landlord · benefactor · patron · authority · superior · dominance

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Opposites
demeanor/attitude when seeking something

cap-in-handdemanding

Requiring great effort

imperious · entitled · arrogant · haughty · high-handed

power dynamics in requests

cap-in-handat gunpoint

Coerced by firearm

commanding · dictatorial · imperatively

power dynamics

cap-in-handholding all the cards

Having every advantage

self-sufficient · independent · calling the shots · in the driver's seat · empowered

Family

cap, hand, caps, hands, capped, capping, handed, handing, handy

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