obsequious

Slavishly eager to please

Obsequious is used to negatively characterize people or their behavior as being servile and aimed at winning favor with someone: The waiter gave us an obsequious smile and introduced himself.

There is nearly always a division of rank, even if only temporary, in situations where someone is seen to be obsequious, with the obsequious behavior directed from the lower- to the higher-ranking person.

servile

sycophantic

Servilely flattering

  • fawningExcessive insincere flattery
  • grovelingDemeaning self-abasement before another
  • toadyingObsequious behavior seeking favor

bootlicking · kowtowing · cringing · slavish · subservient · unctuous · oleaginous · smarmy · flattering · ingratiating

deferential

submissive

Readily yielding to control

docile · yielding · obedient · dutiful · respectful · reverent · courteous · attentive · biddable · amenable

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Opposites
deference and submission

obsequiousdomineering

Aggressively asserting control

assertive · imperious · defiant · rebellious · arrogant

authenticity of manner

obsequioussincere

Genuinely felt, not feigned

genuine · forthright · candid · straightforward · blunt

Family

obsequiously, obsequiousness

Familiarity
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G