submissive

Ready to comply

Submissive describes someone who yields to authority or the will of others, whether by temperament, circumstance, or choice.

A submissive posture signals deference; a submissive tone avoids confrontation.

In BDSM contexts, a submissive (or sub) is a person who consensually cedes control to a dominant partner: She identifies as a submissive.

The word can suggest weakness when applied critically, or willing surrender when applied neutrally.

deferential

respectful

Showing proper regard

  • reverentFeeling profound respect
  • obsequiousServilely attentive to superiors
  • servileExcessively submissive, lacking independence

sycophantic · fawning · subservient · kowtowing · groveling · unctuous · ingratiating · bootlicking · toadying · self-abasing

compliant

obedient

Following commands willingly

tractable · biddable · conformable · manageable · dutiful · obliging · complaisant · accommodating · governable · controllable

meek

timid

Lacking courage or confidence

passive · docile · tame · soft · quiet · unassuming · modest · self-effacing · humble · diffident

subdued

restrained

Held under control

unobtrusive · quiet · reserved · reticent · soft-spoken · suppressed · repressed · cowed · chastened · broken

yielding

surrendering

Ceasing to resist

deferring · ceding · acquiescing · succumbing · bowing · kneeling · genuflecting · prostrating · supplicating · entreating

Categories
Opposites
obedience and compliance

submissivedefiant

Openly resisting control

rebellious · disobedient · insubordinate · recalcitrant · unruly

dominance and power

submissivedominant

Having superior influence

domineering · commanding · authoritative · controlling · bossy

assertiveness and self-expression

submissiveassertive

Confidently self-assured

aggressive · forceful · bold · self-assured · outspoken

Phrases
Family

submission, submissions, submissiveness, submissively, unsubmissive, submissives

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