bone of contention

Point of disagreement

A bone of contention is a subject of ongoing dispute or disagreement between parties.

The image is of dogs fighting over a bone—neither willing to let go.

The inheritance remained a bone of contention between the siblings for years.

Money is always the bone of contention in these negotiations.

dispute

disagreement

Absence of shared opinion

controversy · clash · grievance · issue · objection · squabble · wrangle · altercation · misunderstanding · falling-out

negotiation

deliberation

Careful weighing of choices

mediation · arbitration · compromise · stalemate · bargaining chip · concession · terms · settlement · talking point

tension

friction

Resistance between touching surfaces

  • strainExcessive stretching force
  • uneaseMild persistent worry
  • hostilityAntagonistic disposition toward others

antagonism · resentment · animosity · enmity · bad blood · acrimony · bitterness · distrust · suspicion · ill will

rivalry

competition

Struggle for supremacy

rival · confrontation · vying · sparring · one-upmanship · turf war · territorial dispute · sibling rivalry · office politics · power struggle

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Opposites
agreement vs. disagreement

bone of contentioncommon ground

Points of agreement

meeting of minds · mutual understanding · non-issue · agreement · consensus

divisiveness vs. unity

bone of contentioncommon cause

Mutual objective uniting parties

rallying point · bridge · shared interest · olive branch · bond

agreement vs. dispute

bone of contentioncommon ground

Points of agreement

meeting of minds · mutual agreement · accord · harmony · concurrence

Family

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