table manners

Mealtime social conduct

Table manners are the conventions of polite behavior while eating—using utensils properly, chewing with your mouth closed, keeping elbows off the table, not reaching across others.

Standards vary by culture, but the underlying principle is making shared meals pleasant for everyone.

Her table manners were impeccable.

Parents often drill table manners into children from an early age.

technique

fork

Tined eating tool

  • knifeSharp cutting utensil
  • spoonEating utensil for liquids
  • cuttingDividing via sharp edge

silverware · cutlery · place setting · chopsticks · bread plate · soup spoon · dessert fork · glassware · courses · serving spoon

etiquette

napkin

Mealtime wiping cloth

politeness · please · thank you · excuse me · waiting · serving · passing · reaching · slurping · burping

cultural

dim sum

Chinese small-plate tradition

  • tapasSpanish appetizer assortment
  • mezzeMiddle Eastern small dishes
  • kaisekiRefined Japanese multi-course cuisine

communal dining · bread breaking · toasting · tea ceremony · hands · injera · banana leaf · shared plates · finger foods

Categories
Opposites
social dining behavior

table mannersboorishness

Crude, uncouth conduct

bad manners · rudeness · crudeness · uncouthness · slovenliness

behavioral cultivation

table mannersbarbarism

Savage, uncivilized behavior

savagery · incivility · coarseness · crudity · roughness

behavioral control

table mannersunruliness

Difficult to manage behavior

disorder · disorderliness · rowdiness · wildness · rambunctiousness

Family

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Familiarity
Top 50,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G