he/she

Someone being discussed

He/she is a written device attempting to include both sexes: Each student should bring he/she own laptop.

The construction is awkward and has largely given way to singular they, which flows more naturally in speech and writing.

Some style guides once recommended he/she or the slash-free variant he or she, but both now feel dated and clunky.

inclusivity

they/them

Gender-neutral singular pronouns

respectful · asking · introducing · normalizing · affirming · ally · awareness · sensitivity

gender

binary

Consisting of two parts

genderqueer · identity · male · female · man · woman · boy · girl · masculine · feminine

grammar

subject

Matter under discussion

referent · singular · third-person · nominative · case · syntax · usage · prescriptive · epicene · generic

pronouns

they

Not we, but

  • themThird-person plural object
  • himMale object pronoun
  • herFemale object pronoun

his · themself · oneself · whom · whose · person · individual · someone · anybody · one

legal

party

Gathering for celebration

respondent · testator · beneficiary · spouse · decedent · guardian · heir · signatory · complainant · petitioner

Opposites
grammatical person

he/sheI

First-person subject pronoun

you · me · we · us · yourself

number

he/shethey

Not we, but

them · everyone · everybody · people · we

animacy/personhood

he/sheit

Neuter third-person pronoun

that · this · what · the thing · which

Family

he, she, hers, himself, herself, hero, heroine

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G