he/him

Not she/her

He/him indicates masculine third-person singular pronouns, typically used when someone specifies how they wish to be referred to: My pronouns are he/him.

The phrase appears in social media bios, email signatures, and introductions as a way of signaling gender identity or normalizing the practice of stating pronouns.

Sometimes extended to he/him/his.

pronouns

masculine

Male in character

  • maleSperm-producing sex
  • manAdult male human
  • boyYoung male person

gender · third-person · singular · subject · object · grammatical · referent · antecedent · gendered · binary

traditional

patriarch

Male head of family

husband · king · lord · master · sir · gentleman · heir · mankind · chairman · fireman

identity

transgender

Gender differs from assignment

cisgender · LGBTQ · coming-out · deadname · misgendering · respect · preferred · chosen · affirming · visibility

Categories
Opposites
gender/sex reference

he/himshe/her

Female pronoun set

she · her

grammatical number/specificity

he/himthey/them

Gender-neutral singular pronouns

they · them · neopronouns · it · everyone

Family

him, himself, hers, herself, they, them, their, theirs, themselves

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Everyday, not technical · Rated G