harrowing

Painfully difficult emotionally

Harrowing describes experiences that are intensely distressing or traumatic—events that wound the psyche: a harrowing account of survival, the harrowing final days of the war.

The word suggests something that tears at you, leaving you shaken.

A harrow is a farm implement with metal teeth that breaks up soil; harrowing experiences break up your composure the same way.

emotional

traumatic

Causing severe emotional damage

heartbreaking · gut-wrenching · wrenching · painful · tormenting · scarring · searing · haunting · crushing · overwhelming

ordeal

grueling

Extremely tiring and demanding

brutal · relentless · torturous · agonizing · draining · demanding · testing · trying · difficult · severe

disturbing

unsettling

Causing unease or discomfort

terrifying · alarming · shocking · gruesome · macabre · grim · hauntingly · bone-chilling · bloodcurdling · spine-tingling

agricultural

plowing

Turning earth for crops

turning · aerating · preparing · seedbed · furrow · disc · cultivator · soil · field · clod

narrative

account

Record of dealings

  • taleSpoken or written narrative
  • testimonySworn statement as evidence
  • memoirWritten personal recollection

documentary · footage · survivor · witness · firsthand · recounting · chronicle · portrayal · depiction · story

Categories
Opposites
emotional distress intensity

harrowingsoothing

Reducing distress or discomfort

calming · comforting · peaceful · tranquil · serene

endurability

harrowingbearable

Able to be endured

endurable · tolerable · manageable · survivable · sustainable

emotional valence

harrowingheartwarming

Evoking tender positive feelings

uplifting · heartening · encouraging · gratifying · delightful

Phrases
Family

harrowingly, harrowings

Familiarity
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Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG