agonizing

Deeply distressing experience

Agonizing describes something that causes intense physical or mental suffering: an agonizing decision, agonizing pain.

The word often applies to difficult choices where every option hurts: After agonizing deliberation, she chose to end the relationship.

Something agonizing may also be unbearably slow or drawn out: The agonizing wait for test results lasted two weeks.

emotional

heartbreaking

Causing intense emotional anguish

anguish · grief · despair · sorrow · devastating · crushing · harrowing · unbearable · suffering · distressing

pain

excruciating

Causing extreme suffering

shooting · stabbing · unbearable · intense · acute · sharp · burning · gnawing · relentless · crippling

decision

dilemma

Forced choice between undesirables

impasse · crossroads · choice · uncertainty · indecision · deliberation · hesitation · ambivalence · wrestling · torn

prolonged

interminable

Without apparent conclusion

grueling · exhausting · relentless · tedious · slow · crawling · dragging · tortuous · wearing · draining

Categories
Opposites
intensity of suffering

agonizingpainless

Causing no discomfort

pain-free · comfortable · soothing · mild · gentle

ease of endurance

agonizingbearable

Able to be endured

tolerable · endurable · manageable · survivable · sufferable

emotional valence

agonizingpleasurable

Causing positive feelings

delightful · blissful · gratifying · pleasing · sweet

Family

agonizingly, antagonizing

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG