gentleman caller

Courting male visitor

A gentleman caller is a man who visits a woman socially, typically with romantic intent.

The term belongs to an earlier era when courtship followed formal rituals—a young man would "call on" a young woman at her home under parental supervision.

The phrase now sounds quaint or deliberately old-fashioned: Are you expecting a gentleman caller?

Tennessee Williams's play *The Glass Menagerie* cemented the term in American consciousness.

suitor

wooer

One who courts another

sweetheart · fiancé · swain · inamorato · escort · proposer · betrothed · lover · match · courtship

vintage

Victorian

Of a prim era

parlor · carriage · corsage · chaperone · etiquette · matchmaker · aristocrat · top hat · waistcoat · cravat

courteous

polite

Showing good manners

considerate · well-mannered · dignified · refined · debonair · urbane · gracious · cordial · tactful · decorous

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romantic intention

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Professional collaborator

family friend · neighbor · colleague · casual friend · casual acquaintance

gender role

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Reigning social beauty

debutante · wallflower

social propriety

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Dishonorable man

stalker · secret lover · rogue · rake · scoundrel

Family

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