druthers

What you'd pick

Druthers means personal preference or choice, almost always appearing in the phrase if I had my druthers: If I had my druthers, we'd skip the meeting entirely.

The word comes from a dialectal contraction of "I'd rather"—what you'd rather do if given the choice.

It's informal and slightly folksy.

autonomy

freedom

Absence of constraint

free will · volition · sovereignty · choice · agency · latitude · leeway · discretion · prerogative · say-so

colloquial

say-so

Informal authorization

picks · likes · fancies · choices · pleasures · notions · idiosyncrasies · quirks · whims

preference

choice

Act of selecting

favorite · inclination · leaning · predilection · partiality · penchant · taste · fancy · liking · fondness

desire

wish

Yearned-for outcome

craving · hankering · aspiration · hope · dream · urge · yen · appetite · hunger · thirst

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Opposites
choice vs. compulsion

drutherscoercion

Pressured compliance through threats

force · compulsion · obligation · duress · necessity

attitude toward something

druthersaversion

Intense dislike or repugnance

antipathy · animosity · disinclination · reluctance · repugnance

Family

rather, would rather

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