dom

Leads the scene

A dom is the dominant partner in a BDSM relationship or encounter—the one who takes control, gives commands, or administers discipline.

The term is gender-neutral, though domme sometimes specifies a dominant woman.

She's looking for an experienced dom. (Capitalized Dom is an honorific title.)

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dominant

Having superior influence

leather · power exchange · top · fetish · dungeon · collar · safeword · domme · dominatrix · master

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Opposites
BDSM power role

domsub

Fill-in worker

submissive · bottom · slave · pet · brat

relational control dynamic

domsubmissive

Readily yielding to control

subordinate · follower · servant · yielder

personality/behavioral disposition

domsubmissive

Readily yielding to control

passive · follower · pushover · doormat · meek

Phrases
Family

wisdom, freedom, domain, dome, kingdom, domestic, dominate, dominion, domination

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