demure

Shy and proper

Demure describes a modest, reserved manner—quiet and unassuming, often with downcast eyes: She gave a demure smile.

The word typically applies to women and suggests restrained, proper behavior.

It can carry a hint of affectation, implying the modesty is performed rather than genuine: a demure look that didn't fool anyone.

shy

bashful

Uncomfortably self-conscious

  • timidLacking courage or confidence
  • coyAffectedly modest
  • diffidentLacking self-assurance

self-conscious · meek · shrinking · unassertive · hesitant · sheepish · blushing · retiring · mousy · wallflower

modest

chaste

Abstaining from sexual activity

tasteful · understated · unpretentious · restrained · sober · temperate · austere · plain · simple · conservative

polite

courteous

Showing respectful consideration

civil · deferential · considerate · genteel · cultured · proper · decorous · chivalrous · obliging · tactful

gentle

soft

Yielding to touch

quiet · serene · calm · placid · soothing · graceful · ladylike · dainty · refined · elegant

reserved

reticent

Disinclined to speak freely

self-contained · private · cool · distant · undemonstrative · discreet · taciturn · self-possessed · composed · poised

Categories
Opposites
behavioral modesty

demurebrazen

Shamelessly bold

bold · forward · shameless · brash · brassy

social confidence

demureoutgoing

Sociable and unreserved

extroverted · gregarious · uninhibited · unreserved · extraverted

sexual/romantic propriety

demurewanton

Deliberately cruel without reason

brazen · immodest · provocative · salacious · licentious

Family

demur, demurely, demureness, demurral, demuring, demured

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G