us-and-them

Ingroup versus outgroup

Us-and-them describes a mentality that divides people into opposing groups—insiders versus outsiders, allies versus enemies.

The phrase captures tribal thinking where loyalty to one's own group breeds suspicion or hostility toward others: an us-and-them attitude between management and workers, The debate devolved into us-and-them posturing.

Often used critically to highlight divisiveness.

division

polarization

Separation into opposing extremes

partition · bifurcation · chasm · gulf · divide · separation · demarcation · dichotomy · cleavage · disunion

identity

ingroup

Exclusive social circle

tribalism · affiliation · nationalism · ethnocentrism · clannishness · loyalty · allegiance · solidarity · community · heritage

othering

xenophobia

Hatred of outsiders

scapegoating · dehumanization · marginalization · exclusion · demonization · vilification · outsider · foreigner · alien · fear-mongering

binary

dualism

Philosophy of opposed pairs

black-and-white · zero-sum · two-sided · oppositional · contrast · antithesis · simplification · reductionism · categorization · labeling

conflict

hostility

Antagonistic disposition toward others

enmity · animosity · friction · opposition · clash · feud · discord · strife · confrontation · adversarial

Opposites
social division vs. unity

us-and-themwe

not just me

all of us · togetherness · unity · solidarity · brotherhood

ingroup-outgroup mentality vs. universalism

us-and-themuniversalism

Doctrine of total reconciliation

cosmopolitanism · egalitarianism · humanism · common ground · shared humanity

adversarial framing vs. collaborative framing

us-and-themcollaboration

Joint intellectual work

cooperation · partnership · win-win · mutual benefit · common cause

Family

them, they, their, theirs, themselves, ourselves

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G