tug of war

Pulling opposite directions

Tug of war is a contest where two teams grip opposite ends of a rope and pull, each trying to drag the other across a center line.

The phrase extends to any struggle between opposing forces: a tug of war between work and family, The custody battle became a tug of war over the children.

sport

rope

Thick twisted fibers

  • teamsOrganized cooperative groups
  • pullForce toward oneself
  • strengthPower to exert force

contest · match · tournament · championship · grip · anchor · heave · tension · stamina · endurance

conflict

struggle

Labored effort against resistance

  • battleArmed military engagement
  • clashViolent disagreement or collision
  • disputeVerbal clash over differences

disagreement · contention · rivalry · opposition · tension · friction · standoff · stalemate · deadlock · confrontation

metaphor

torn

Pulled into pieces

loyalties · priorities · dilemma · inner conflict · ambivalence · indecision · caught between · balancing act · push and pull

Categories
Opposites
competitive dynamic

tug of warcooperation

Joint action toward shared aims

collaboration · teamwork · harmony · partnership · unity

team vs. individual activity

tug of warindividual sport

Athletic contest for one

singles match · one-on-one · sprint · golf · singles tennis

conflict resolution approach

tug of warcompromise

Agreement through mutual sacrifice

consensus · negotiation · mediation · give and take · reconciliation

Family

war, tug, tugs, tugged, tug-of-war, tugging, tugger

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G