toadying

Groveling for favor

Toadying is excessive flattery or servile behavior toward someone in a position of power, hoping to gain favor.

The word evokes someone crouching and fawning: His toadying to the boss was embarrassing to watch.

Related to toady, originally a charlatan's assistant who pretended to eat toads to demonstrate fake cures.

behavior

groveling

Demeaning self-abasement before another

kowtowing · genuflecting · prostrating · cowering · fawning · simpering · wheedling · truckling · crawling · sniveling

flattery

fawning

Excessive insincere flattery

obsequiousness · sweet-talk · soft-soap · apple-polishing · bootlicking · brown-nosing · kowtowing · blandishment · cajolery · smarm

person

sycophant

Servile praise-giver

flatterer · fawner · groveler · lackey · flunkey · minion · hanger-on · ass-kisser · lapdog · doormat

Categories
Opposites
social stance toward authority/power

toadyingdefiant

Openly resisting control

rebellious · insubordinate · assertive · independent · self-respecting

authenticity of expression

toadyingcandid

Honest and direct

blunt · forthright · honest · sincere · frank

social power dynamics

toadyingdefiance

Open resistance to authority

insubordination · rebelliousness · assertiveness · standing up · defying

Family

toadyism

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G