kowtows

Shows excessive deference

Kowtow comes from a Chinese word for a gesture of deep respect: kneeling and touching one's forehead to the ground.

The verb kowtow now typically means to show excessive deference or submission to someone in authority.

He refused to kowtow to the new management.

The word carries a negative connotation, suggesting servility or obsequiousness rather than genuine respect.

obsequious

sycophancy

Obsequious behavior toward authority

  • fawningExcessive insincere flattery
  • grovelingDemeaning self-abasement before another
  • toadyingObsequious behavior seeking favor

flattery · servility · bootlicking · pandering · ingratiating · submissiveness · appeasement · capitulation · yielding · compliance

deference

bowing

Bending forward in deference

genuflection · reverence · homage · supplication · deference · respect · humility · subservience · vassalage · tribute

political

appeasement

Satisfying demands to prevent conflict

compromise · yielding · surrender · capitulation · submission · backing down · caving · acquiescing · accommodating · lobbying

Opposites
deference vs. defiance

kowtowsdefies

Openly resists or challenges

resists · rebels · stands up to · opposes · disobeys

servility vs. dignity

kowtowsstands tall

Exhibits upright pride

asserts oneself · dominates · towers over · lords over · dictates

Phrases
Family

kowtow, kowtowing, kowtowed

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G