gaslight

Psychologically undermine someone

To gaslight someone is to manipulate them into doubting their own perceptions, memory, or sanity.

The term comes from a 1938 play in which a husband dims the gas lights while denying any change, making his wife question her grip on reality.

Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse: He gaslit her for years, insisting her concerns were imaginary.

The word has broadened to describe any attempt to make someone distrust their own judgment: The company tried to gaslight customers about the defective product.

manipulation

brainwash

Coercively alter beliefs

distort · undermine · invalidate · confuse · disorient · exploit · twist · warp · deny · contradict

lamp

lantern

Enclosed portable light

burner · flicker · glow · illumination · fixture · streetlamp · sconce · brass · Victorian · oil

psychology

narcissism

Excessive admiration of oneself

  • abuseCruel or violent treatment
  • victimOne harmed by another
  • traumaLasting psychological wound

recovery · awareness · recognize · patterns · toxic · emotional · mental · self-doubt · validation · boundaries

theatrical

1944

Mid-forties wartime year

  • filmMovie or coating
  • noirHard-boiled film genre
  • suspenseAnxious uncertainty about outcomes

thriller · drama · performance · psychological · classic · Hollywood · stage · adaptation · Paula · plot

vintage

Victorian

Of a prim era

era · 19th-century · old-fashioned · atmospheric · nostalgic · heritage · Dickensian · cobblestone · foggy · London

Categories
Opposites
psychological manipulation vs. honest communication

gaslightvalidate

Confirm as true

tell the truth · level with · come clean · speak plainly

reality denial vs. reality affirmation

gaslightaffirm

Declare to be true

corroborate · confirm · verify · substantiate · bear witness

psychological harm vs. psychological support

gaslightvalidate

Confirm as true

reassure · affirm · empower · support · uplift

Family

gaslighting, gaslights, gaslighted, gaslighter, gaslighters

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG