finger wagging

Lecturing hand motion

Finger wagging is the gesture of pointing an index finger and moving it side to side, typically to scold, warn, or express disapproval.

The phrase often describes sanctimonious lecturing or moralizing: The editorial was just finger wagging about kids these days.

Someone who engages in this is a finger wagger, and the behavior reads as condescending or preachy.

Related

tut tut · nagging · reproach · chiding · stern · moralistic · preachy · moral high ground · condescending · sanctimonious · holier-than-thou · hectoring · berating · reprimand · slap on the wrist · schoolmarm · pointing · accusatory

Categories
Opposites
approval vs. disapproval

finger waggingthumbs up

Gesture signaling approval

praise · approval · applause · pat on the back · commendation

moral stance

finger waggingtolerance

Willingness to accept difference

permissiveness · live and let live · acceptance · non-judgment · open-mindedness

interpersonal tone

finger waggingencouragement

Support spurring continued effort

support · reassurance · affirmation · validation · understanding

Family

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Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G