finger-wagging

Scolding hand motion

Finger-wagging is scolding or lecturing someone in a moralistic or self-righteous way, evoking the image of wagging a finger at a misbehaving child.

The term is usually dismissive—implying the criticism is unwelcome or sanctimonious: I'm tired of all the finger-wagging from politicians who've done the same things themselves.

moralizing

preaching

Delivering moral discourse

holier-than-thou · sanctimonious · preachy · lecturing · hectoring · didactic · priggish · smug · grandstanding · virtue-signaling

admonishment

scolding

Harsh verbal criticism

lecture · reproof · berating · upbraiding · castigation · correction · censure · telling-off · dressing-down · tongue-lashing

disapproval

tut-tutting

Making disapproving sounds

frown · displeasure · contempt · derision · snubbing · scorn · criticism · denunciation · clucking · tsking

warning

admonition

Mild verbal correction

notice · heads-up · counsel · advice · guidance · reminder · deterrent · threat · omen · prophetic

parental

motherly

Showing parental warmth

protective · corrective · scolding · concerned · caring · guiding · supervising · watchful · admonishing

stern

authoritative

Having recognized expertise

  • strictRigorous, without flexibility
  • severeExtremely harsh or strict
  • harshUnpleasantly severe or rough

imperious · commanding · domineering · intimidating · disapproving · forbidding · unyielding · firm · uncompromising · withering

Categories
Opposites
approval vs. disapproval

finger-waggingthumbs-up

Gesture indicating approval

applause · praise · commendation · endorsement · pat on the back

permissiveness vs. moralistic censure

finger-waggingtolerance

Willingness to accept difference

permissiveness · live-and-let-live · laissez-faire · acceptance · open-mindedness

tone of communication

finger-waggingencouragement

Support spurring continued effort

reassurance · support · empathy · warmth · understanding

Family

finger, fingers, wagging, wagged, fingernail, waggle, fingered, waggish, fingering

Familiarity
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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G