co-mother

Fellow maternal figure

A co-mother is a woman who shares mothering responsibilities with another parent, typically in lesbian partnerships where both women consider themselves the child's mother.

The term acknowledges parental roles that aren't based on biological connection alone: As co-mothers, they split school pickups and bedtime routines.

It also appears in contexts of shared custody or communal parenting arrangements.

godmother

godparent

Baptismal ceremony guardian

sponsor · ceremony · blessing · faith · religious · rite · church · confirmation · vow · commitment

coparenting

co-parenting

Joint child-rearing by separated adults

mediation · communication · scheduling · holidays · handoff · boundaries · consistency · cooperative · divorced · separated

queer

lesbian

Woman desiring women

donor · wife · partner · adoption · IVF · surrogacy · recognition · equality

communal

comadre

Reciprocal godparent term

alloparenting · tribal · kinship · childcare · community · sisterhood · solidarity · intergenerational · neighborhood · reciprocity

Opposites
parental collaboration vs. sole parenting

co-mothersingle mother

Woman raising children alone

absent mother · solo parent

parental role legitimacy

co-motherbiological mother

Female who gave birth

birth mother · stepmother · legal guardian · foster mother · surrogate

parental gender role

co-motherco-father

Parent through same child

Family

mother, mothers, mothered, mothering, motherhood, motherly, maternal, maternity, matriarch

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