bete noire

One's particular dread

A bete noire is something or someone particularly disliked or dreaded—a persistent source of annoyance or fear.

The French phrase means "black beast," suggesting a dark creature that haunts you: Algebra was my bete noire in high school.

Often spelled with the accents: bête noire.

aversion

bugbear

Persistent cause of anxiety

nemesis · nightmare · bogeyman · scourge · bane · curse · plague · torment · thorn · irritant

adversary

nemesis

Persistent source of ruin

foe · opponent · tormentor · persecutor · detractor · critic · villain · threat · menace · obstacle

Categories
Opposites
emotional valence toward a person/thing

bete noirebeloved

One who is treasured

darling · favorite · pet · apple of one's eye · sweetheart

source of psychological distress vs. comfort

bete noirecomfort

Ease or soothing relief

solace · refuge · haven · sanctuary · safe space

avoidance vs. seeking

bete noiremagnet

Object producing attractive field

draw · lure · attraction · calling · raison d'être

Family

beast, bestial, bestiary, bestiality, noir

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G