pet peeve

Recurring minor annoyance

A pet peeve is a minor annoyance that bothers someone more than it reasonably should—a personal grievance they nurture and return to: My pet peeve is people who chew with their mouths open.

The "pet" suggests something kept close, almost fondly maintained despite being irritating.

annoyance

irritation

Mild anger or inflammation

exasperation · bother · nuisance · gripe · complaint · grievance · bugbear · thorn · hassle · headache

trigger

grating

Crossed bars or harsh

galling · bothersome · aggravating · infuriating · maddening · provoking · nettlesome · obnoxious · offensive · irritating

trivial

nitpicking

Excessive focus on trivialities

  • quibbleTrivial objection raised
  • niggleCriticize in petty ways
  • trifleInsignificant matter or thing

triviality · minutia · technicality · small potatoes · first-world problem · non-issue · nothing

personal

quirk

Peculiar behavioral trait

obsession · aversion · hobbyhorse · particularity · peculiarity · sensitivity · sore spot · sore point · hot button · bête noire

Categories
Opposites
emotional valence toward recurring experiences

pet peeveguilty pleasure

Enjoyment tinged with shame

creature comfort · soft spot · fondness

scale of grievance

pet peevedealbreaker

Unacceptable condition that ends talks

magnitude of concern

pet peevecrisis

Decisive dangerous moment

catastrophe · existential threat · hill to die on · red line

Family

petty, pets, peevish, peeved, peeve, pettiness, peevishly, peevishness, pettier

Familiarity
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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G