banter

Light verbal sparring

Banter is playful, teasing conversation between people who enjoy verbal sparring.

Good banter requires quick wit and mutual understanding—it should amuse rather than wound: Their banter kept the whole table laughing.

The verb works the same way: We bantered back and forth all evening.

Banter gone wrong crosses into mockery.

teasing

ribbing

Affectionate verbal teasing

roasting · chaffing · poking fun · mocking · taunting · goading · winding up · taking the mickey · razzing · trash talk

conversation

chat

Informal verbal exchange

back-and-forth · repartee · gabbing · small talk · confab · tête-à-tête · palaver · shooting the breeze · verbal sparring · interplay

playfulness

joking

Saying things in fun

frivolity · good-natured · light-hearted · jovial · mirthful · merriment · levity · fun · silliness · larking

flirtation

coy

Affectedly modest

suggestive · coquettish · playful · charming · cheeky · saucy · witty · flattery · chemistry · spark

wit

quips

Brief witty remarks

zingers · retorts · comebacks · bon mots · ripostes · puns · sharp tongue

rapport

camaraderie

Goodwill among companions

warmth · affection · familiarity · connection · easygoing · relaxed · amicable · chummy · matey · collegiality

Categories
Opposites
tone and intent

banterargument

Reasoned case or dispute

quarrel · verbal abuse · hostility · abuse · insults

social function

banterpraise

Expression of approval

flattery · adulation · approval · commendation · fawning

conversational mode

bantersilence

Total lack of sound

formality · formal address · monologue · lecture · sermon

Phrases
Family

bantering, bantered, banterer, banters

Familiarity
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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G