talk to the hand

I'm not listening

Talk to the hand is a dismissive gesture and catchphrase from 1990s American slang, delivered while holding up an open palm toward someone.

It signals refusal to listen: Talk to the hand, because the face ain't listening.

The phrase became a pop culture cliché, now used mostly ironically or nostalgically: She just gave me a talk-to-the-hand when I tried to explain.

Related

not listening · palm · get lost · bye Felicia · back off · dismissal · scoff · cold shoulder · roll · sass · in your face · brush-off · snub · leave me alone · rejection · disdain · insouciance · indifference

Categories
Opposites
receptiveness to communication

talk to the handgo on

Continue doing something

tell me more · I hear you · speak your mind · speak freely · active listening

conversational attitude

talk to the handhear me out

Request for patient attention

agreeing to disagree · building bridges · active listening

respect in discourse

talk to the handwith all due respect

Polite disclaimer before disagreeing

acknowledging · validating

Family

talk, talks, talked, talking, talker, talkers, hand, hands, handed

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G