mother's little helper

Suburban anxiety prescription

Mother's little helper is a pill—typically a tranquilizer or sedative—that helps a housewife cope with the stresses of domestic life.

The phrase comes from a 1966 Rolling Stones song about suburban women dependent on Valium or similar drugs: She's been on mother's little helper since the kids were born.

The term captures both the medicalization of women's unhappiness and the era's casual attitude toward prescription drug use.

prescription

diazepam

Anti-anxiety benzodiazepine

barbiturate · pill · medication · prescription · pharmaceutical · doctor · refill · pharmacy

housewife

suburbia

Residential areas outside cities

chores · isolation · boredom · desperation · coping · overwhelmed · homemaker · drudgery · monotony · nervous breakdown

1960s

counterculture

Rejection of mainstream values

feminine mystique · postwar · nuclear family · conformity · discontent · advertising

anxiety

nervousness

State of anxious unease

panic · worry · despair · emptiness · unhappiness · discontent · malaise · ennui · trapped

dependency

addiction

Compulsive substance reliance

reliance · craving · dependence · escalation · overprescription · numbing · escape · self-medication

song

rolling stones

Moving small rocks

single · lyrics · satire · classic rock

Opposites
pharmacological effect

mother's little helperspeed

Rate of motion

caffeine · cocaine · methamphetamine · Adderall · amphetamines

coping mechanism type

mother's little helpertherapy

Curative mental treatment

marriage counseling · social support · hired help · nanny · community support

cultural connotation

mother's little helpernatural remedies

Non-pharmaceutical healing approaches

exercise · meditation · yoga · herbal tea · mindfulness

Family

mother, mothers, motherly, motherhood, mothering, mothered, little, littler, littlest

Familiarity
Top 500,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG-13