missed connection

Ships passing unaware

A missed connection is a brief encounter with a stranger—on a subway, in a coffee shop, at a concert—where attraction or interest sparked but no contact information was exchanged.

The phrase names both the encounter itself and the personal ads seeking to find that person again: Missed connection: You were reading Borges on the L train. We made eye contact. Coffee?

The term plays on the transportation sense of missing a connecting flight or train.

serendipity

fate

Predetermined course of events

chance · timing · synchronicity · providence · universe · stars · happenstance · twist · alignment · fortune

longing

yearning

Intense prolonged craving

wondering · ache · fantasy · daydream · imagining · hope · anticipation · curiosity · stranger · fleeting

posting

Craigslist

Free online classifieds site

searching · reply · response · details · location · date · time · outfit · identifying · message

romance

stranger

Person not yet known

  • trainRail vehicle or instruct
  • subwayUnderground transit passage
  • caféCasual eatery serving drinks

bookstore · glance · smile · spark · attraction · chemistry · intrigue · mystery · commute · platform

regret

remorse

Guilt for wrongdoing

shyness · timing · opportunity · courage · boldness · inaction · passivity · unspoken · words · approach

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Opposites
relational outcome

missed connectionlove at first sight

Immediate romantic attraction to stranger

romance · relationship · meet-cute · deep connection · happily ever after

transportation/logistics

missed connectiondirect flight

Uninterrupted air travel

timing and fate

missed connectionperfect timing

Optimal moment selection

meant to be · serendipity · stars aligned · crossed paths · lucky break

Family

miss, missed, missing, misses, connect, connected, connecting, connects, connection

Familiarity
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Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G