first dibs

Earliest selection right

First dibs is a claim to priority—the right to choose or take something before anyone else.

Children establish first dibs by calling it: I call first dibs on the front seat!

Adults use it more loosely for any prior claim: She has first dibs on the job opening.

The phrase comes from a children's game word for a claim or share.

priority

head start

Beginning advantage given

advantage · early access · pole position · right of way · preferential treatment · top pick

claiming

reserving

Setting something aside beforehand

snatching · marking · holding · booking · shotgun · earmarking · tagging · locking in · nabbing · snapping up

entitlement

birthright

Entitlement from origin

rightful claim · seniority rights · heir apparent · primogeniture · vested interest

playfulness

sibling rivalry

Competition between children sharing parents

pecking order · bragging rights · one-upmanship · competitive spirit · joking around · kidding · horsing around

Categories
Opposites
priority in claiming

first dibslast pick

Final, unchosen remainder

sloppy seconds · leftovers · last in line · second choice · waiting your turn

entitlement vs. deference

first dibsyielding

Bending under pressure

deference · forfeiture · passing · stepping aside · giving way

assertiveness of claim

first dibspassing

Moving by or temporary

deferring · yielding · relinquishing · ceding · bowing out

Family

first, first-rate, firstly, firsthand, dibs, first-class, firstborn, first-time, first-timer

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G