come to terms

Accept the situation

To come to terms with something is to accept or reconcile oneself to a difficult reality: She's still coming to terms with her diagnosis.

The phrase suggests a process of psychological adjustment—moving from resistance or denial toward acceptance.

To come to terms with another party is to reach an agreement after negotiation: The union and management finally came to terms.

agreement

negotiation

Discussion seeking mutual accord

deal · understanding · arrangement · contract · consensus · concession · bargaining · mediation · resolution · conditions

acceptance

acceptance

Consent to receive

resignation · adjustment · adaptation · coping · processing · closure · understanding · embracing · acquiescence · settling

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Opposites
acceptance vs resistance

come to termsdeny

Refuse to admit

resist · reject · bury one's head in the sand · disavow · repudiate

agreement vs disagreement

come to termsdisagree

Hold a contrary opinion

deadlock · walk away from · stalemate · hold out · dig in

resolution vs ongoing conflict

come to termshold a grudge

Maintain lasting resentment

fester · stew · keep fighting

Family

come, term, agreement, coming, terms, came, terminal, comes, intermediate

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