bite tongue

Hold back words

To bite one's tongue is to stop oneself from saying something, usually to avoid conflict or offense: I wanted to tell him he was wrong, but I bit my tongue.

The image is of physically restraining speech.

The phrase almost always appears with a possessive: bite my tongue, bite your tongue.

Bite your tongue! as a command means "Don't say that" or "Take that back."

Opposites
verbal restraint vs. expression

bite tonguespeak up

Talk louder or opine

speak out · speak one's mind · speak freely · say one's piece · let it out

diplomatic silence vs. confrontational speech

bite tonguetell it like it is

Speak with complete candor

give someone a piece of one's mind · let someone have it · call out · confront · lay into

self-censorship vs. uninhibited expression

bite tongueblurt out

Utter suddenly, impulsively

let slip · spill the beans · shoot from the hip · run one's mouth · mouth off

Family

bite, tongue, biting, bitten, bit, bites, biter, tongues, tongued

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G