tell it like it is

Be brutally honest

To tell it like it is means to speak bluntly and honestly, without softening the truth or sparing feelings: I appreciate that she tells it like it is, even when it's hard to hear.

The phrase often carries approval—someone who tells it like it is is seen as refreshingly direct in contrast to those who equivocate or flatter.

It can also justify rudeness: I'm just telling it like it is.

Related

frank · candid · speak your mind · accurate · sincere · unvarnished · no holds barred · directness · call a spade a spade · pull no punches · bluntness · factual · plainspoken · unfiltered · straight shooter · lay it on the line · explicit · straightforward

Categories
Opposites
honesty/deception

tell it like it islie

Deliberate falsehood

deceive · beat around the bush · mislead · dissemble · prevaricate

directness/indirectness

tell it like it isbeat around the bush

Avoid stating directly

sugarcoat · mince words · hedge · equivocate · tiptoe around

emotional consideration

tell it like it ishandle with kid gloves

Treat very carefully

sugarcoat · soften the blow · be gentle · pull one's punches · coddle

Family

tell, tells, telling, teller, tellers, like, likes, liked, liking

Familiarity
Top 50,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G